Then we are definitely cousins! I'm descended from Eben's younger sister Charlotte Lovenia Barker. Their parents were Amos Hastings Barker and Betsey Jane Moore. Amos' father was Nathaniel Barker who married Huldah
Hastings. and Nathaniel was the son of Jonathan Barker and Nancy Swan. We are descended from two Revolutionary War veterans, one being Jonathan and the other being Huldah Hastings' father Amos Hastings. I have a bunch of documents I can share with you. Also, check out my "West in New England" blog and the tags for the Barkers,.
ALways nice to meet another cousin!
PS. Btw, my Dad's mother was Cora Berthella Barker, daughter of Charlotte and her husband Frank W Barker, who was her cousin.